A Word from Fat Nerds
In this blog, how to choose useful fats and add them deliberately to support health without accidentally overloading the meal.
Fat has had an interesting few decades.
For years, fat was the villain.
Low-fat yoghurt.
Low-fat biscuits.
Low-fat everything.
Then the pendulum swung.
Butter came back.
Coconut oil became fashionable.
High-fat diets exploded online.
Suddenly fat was not only acceptable—it was sometimes promoted as though adding more of it automatically made a diet healthier.
Neither extreme is particularly useful.
Fat is essential.
Some sources are better choices than others.
And because fat is energy-dense, portions can quietly become much larger than we realise.
The useful questions are not:
“Is fat good?”
or:
“Is fat bad?”
Ask instead:
What kind of fat? From what food? How much? And what is it replacing?
That gives us something we can actually work with.
Your Body Actually Needs Fat
Fat is not an optional extra that somehow slipped into the human diet.
We need it.
Dietary fat supplies essential fatty acids and contributes to normal cell function. Fat also helps the body absorb the fat-soluble vitamins A, D, E and K.
It adds flavour.
It changes texture.
And as part of a balanced meal, it can contribute to satisfaction after eating.
So the OFB answer is not to eliminate fat.
It is to use it intelligently.
Because there is an important difference between:
essential
and:
unlimited.
Water is essential.
That does not mean you need to drink twenty litres of it.
Fat belongs in a healthy diet.
That does not mean every meal needs to swim in it.
Fat Is Not One Thing
Professor Walter Willett and the Harvard Nutrition Source have spent years trying to move the conversation away from simply eating “low fat.”
Their message is much more useful:
The type of fat matters.
Unsaturated fats are commonly found in foods such as:
- olive and other predominantly unsaturated plant oils;
- nuts;
- seeds;
- avocado;
- fish.
Saturated fats occur in larger amounts in foods such as:
- butter;
- fatty meats;
- cheese;
- coconut oil;
- palm oil;
- many processed foods.
And industrial trans fats are the type we want to minimise as far as practical. Harvard’s review of dietary fat emphasises favouring unsaturated fats over saturated and trans fats rather than pursuing low-fat eating for its own sake.
There is one more important point.
Most foods are not made from one isolated type of fat.
A food may contain a mixture.
So once again, nutrition becomes less useful when we turn it into a purity contest.
We are looking for the overall pattern.
The Replacement Test
This is where Professor Frank Hu’s work becomes particularly useful.
You will often hear:
“Eat less saturated fat.”
Fine.
But then we need another question:
What are you replacing it with?
Because taking butter out of the diet and replacing those calories with refined starch and sugar is not the same change as replacing some of that saturated fat with nuts, seeds, fish, olive oil or whole grains.
Research examining saturated-fat replacement consistently shows that the replacement nutrient matters. Replacing saturated fat with unsaturated fats is associated with better cardiovascular outcomes, whereas replacing it with refined carbohydrate does not provide the same benefit.
That is why a packet can say:
LOW FAT
in enormous letters and still contain food of fairly ordinary nutritional quality.
Low fat is a description.
It is not a health certificate.
Eat Food, Not Isolated Fat Arguments
Professor Dariush Mozaffarian has been one of the researchers pushing nutrition away from an obsession with isolated macronutrient percentages and toward the quality of actual foods and dietary patterns.
That makes sense.
Because people do not eat “17 grams of monounsaturated fat” for lunch.
They eat food.
Think about:
- nuts;
- seeds;
- avocado;
- fish;
- eggs;
- dairy;
- meat;
- olive oil.
These foods bring different combinations of protein, fibre, vitamins, minerals and energy along with their fat.
A handful of nuts and a highly processed snack containing added oil may both contain fat.
That does not make them nutritionally identical.
Tufts guidance associated with Mozaffarian has similarly emphasised foods such as nuts, seeds, fish and plant oils rather than simply chasing a low-fat percentage.
This is where A Word from Protein Nerds, A Word from Fibre Nerds and A Word from Carb Nerds begin joining together.
Protein does not live in isolation.
Carbohydrate does not live in isolation.
Fibre does not live in isolation.
Fat does not live in isolation.
They arrive in food.
And we eat meals.
Useful Fat Sources Still Need Portions
Professor Penny Kris-Etherton’s research has extensively examined foods such as nuts and their role in heart-healthy dietary patterns.
Nuts are particularly useful because they provide predominantly unsaturated fats along with fibre, protein and other nutrients. Research led by Kris-Etherton has found favourable effects when nuts are incorporated into heart-healthy diets.
Excellent.
Eat some nuts.
But here comes the part that often disappears from nutrition conversations.
A useful food can still provide a lot of energy.
A tablespoon of peanut butter is useful.
Half a jar while standing in front of the cupboard is a different event.
Olive oil can be an excellent choice.
That does not mean the bottle needs to perform a reenactment of Niagara Falls over dinner.
Avocado is useful.
So are nuts.
So is salmon.
None of that makes energy balance disappear.
Energy-Dense Does Not Mean Bad
Fat provides roughly nine calories per gram.
Protein and carbohydrate provide roughly four.
That means a relatively small amount of fat can carry considerable energy.
Again:
This does not make fat bad.
It makes the portion worth noticing.
Consider how easily these can accumulate:
- oil in the frying pan;
- butter on bread;
- mayonnaise in a sandwich;
- dressing over salad;
- cheese over the meal;
- nut butter from the jar;
- nuts eaten directly from the packet.
Each individual choice may seem insignificant.
Stack them together and the energy in the meal can climb quickly.
This is particularly important when someone says:
“I eat really healthy, but I cannot understand why my calorie intake is so high.”
Sometimes the answer is not junk food.
Sometimes it is a collection of perfectly reasonable foods in unreasonable amounts.
A useful rule is:
Healthy fat still counts. That does not make it unhealthy—it makes the portion worth noticing.
The Accidental-Fat Problem
Professor Alice Lichtenstein of Tufts has repeatedly emphasised replacing saturated fats with predominantly unsaturated alternatives rather than treating fashionable animal fats as an automatic health upgrade. Tufts’ discussion of the failure of simplistic low-fat thinking similarly emphasises the quality of the fats chosen.
But there is another problem that is less scientific and much more ordinary.
Accidental fat.
This is fat we did not really decide to eat.
It simply accumulated while we prepared the meal.
You cook chicken in oil.
Reasonable.
Then add avocado.
Fine.
Then cheese.
Still food.
Then mayonnaise.
Then dressing.
Then perhaps a handful of nuts afterwards.
None of these foods necessarily need to be banned.
The problem is that no single decision accounted for the whole meal.
The same thing happens with:
- butter underneath another rich topping;
- oil used in cooking and then drizzled over the finished meal;
- mayonnaise applied without looking;
- cheese added automatically;
- nuts continuously eaten from the packet;
- restaurant meals combining fatty meat, cooking oils, creamy sauces and fried sides.
Fat often becomes excessive through accumulation rather than intention.
That gives us the central OFB principle for this article:
Add fats deliberately, not accidentally.
Build Fat Into the Meal
Here is the practical system.
At each main meal:
1. Choose the protein
Chicken.
Fish.
Eggs.
Lean meat.
Greek yoghurt.
Legumes.
Whatever fits the meal.
2. Add plants
Vegetables.
Fruit.
Salad.
Whatever makes sense.
3. Add useful carbohydrate where appropriate
Rice.
Potatoes.
Oats.
Fruit.
Whole grains.
Match the amount to your activity, appetite and goals.
4. Identify the main fat source
This is the important step.
Ask:
Where is the fat in this meal coming from?
Maybe it is:
- olive oil;
- avocado;
- nuts;
- seeds;
- salmon;
- eggs;
- cheese;
- the meat itself.
Once you know, you can make a deliberate decision about whether the meal actually needs another source.
Chicken, rice and vegetables
Add some olive oil.
Good.
It probably does not also need butter, cheese, mayonnaise and avocado.
Yoghurt and fruit
Add a small portion of nuts.
Done.
Eggs on toast with avocado
That may already be plenty.
You might not need butter under the toast, cheese over the eggs and a heavy sauce on top.
Salmon, potatoes and vegetables
The salmon already supplies fat.
You do not necessarily need to attack the plate with half a bottle of oil.
There is nothing magical about these examples.
They simply force the decision to become intentional.
Try the Seven-Day Fat Check
For the next seven days, do not immediately start weighing every gram of food.
Instead, build awareness.
At each main meal, identify four things:
Planned Fat
What fat did you deliberately choose?
Olive oil?
Avocado?
Nuts?
Fish?
Hidden Fat
What entered through:
- cooking oil;
- sauces;
- dressings;
- spreads;
- cheese;
- restaurant preparation?
Replacement Opportunity
Is there a saturated-fat source you eat regularly that could sometimes be replaced by an unsaturated alternative?
Perhaps:
Butter → olive oil.
Fatty processed meat → fish.
Creamy dressing → a lighter olive-oil-based option.
This is not about banning foods.
It is about improving the pattern.
Portion
Does the amount make sense for:
- your appetite;
- activity;
- energy requirements;
- goals?
That is enough.
If detailed tracking helps you, use it.
If it does not, you can still learn enormously by simply paying attention.
Fat Is a Tool
Fat is not the enemy.
It is also not a nutritional loophole where calories suddenly stop mattering because the food is labelled healthy.
The type matters.
The food matters.
The replacement matters.
And the amount still matters.
So the next time you prepare a meal, do one thing differently.
Before reaching automatically for the oil, butter, dressing, cheese or sauce, ask:
What is my chosen fat source for this meal?
Pick it.
Add an amount that makes sense.
Then stop adding extras just because they are there.
That one decision can clean up a surprising amount of accidental energy without turning nutrition into another full-time job.
Choose useful fats. Add them on purpose. Let the meal serve the mission.
Next in the Food Nerds series:
A Word from Calorie Nerds.
Earn It.

